Thanks to all of you who replied to the article. I just wanted to let you all know that I found a way to end the problem. Belive it or not a guy friend of mine told me the sure fire way to stop the advancement of a guy is to say the magical words " You are like a brother to me" well I tried it and so far it was the answer to my problem. So any girls out there who have a good friend who wants to be more should try the brother angle. Unless the guy is a complete loser he should get the hint.
Later